Posted by Angel
Online dating has greatly picked momentum because more and more people want to inject some precision in the way they seek their partners. Online dating websites matches people based on their online profile of traits, personality, hobbies and other preferences. It then tracks and locates people with similar profiles who are looking for people that more or less fit your profile.
It is imperative therefore that one creates a good online profile because this is the only way the software will match you with the right person and also attract seekers to you.
The first way to create a great online dating profile is to have a good recent photograph can communicates truth. If the objective of the online dating site is to remain anonymous then one can use good photo software like Photoshop to polish your photo and ensure that it looks presentable.
A photo that shows the full body should be used as opposed to one that is passport sized. But if the goal is to move from online dating to offline dating possibly with the view of marriage, then the photo needs to be realistic.
Blurry photos are frowned upon and so are airbrushed ones geared to deceive the public as to your real looks. Sexually suggestive photos should be avoided unless the site is of a purely sexual nature. Buy a good digital camera and take some good digital photos rather than scanning online Polaroid photos.
Another tactic for creating a good online dating profile is to make your expectations clear from the onset. This eliminates confusion and ensures that seekers develop a positive view of you even when the online interaction moves offline.
Expectations should also be realistic and attainable. The more unattainable your expectations the more the likelyhood of either not finding a match or being thoroughly disappointed especially if the relationship moves offline.
List your hobbies and give premium to your character and personality traits. Highlight more of character than personality. For example, being jolly is a personality trait and not a character trait. Character traits can be compassionate, kind etc.
Highlight these and add a healthy mix of personality and hobbies that involve outdoor activities rather than indoor ones (although one will be surprised to learn of how many people actually love people who have few outdoor passions).
Career path should also be included but avoid over-concentrating on that lest your potential suitors are scared away.
Finally, spice up your screen name. Since most people profiled in online dating sites use pseudonyms and screen names to preserve their privacy, use a name that is catchy and fun like bubblicious99 or cutekat33.
People are attracted to people who have playful screen names rather than serious ones such as dragon1234 or monster4u and so forth. Screen names can be a reflection of your inner condition and people are weary of people who appear “conflicted” on the inside.